Why do we say "if that were true" and not "if that was true"? In addition, in my sentence, should the question mark be inside the quote or outside?

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And regarding your second question, according to this context I'd say the question mark should be indeed after the quotation marks.

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Because you're using the past tense with a subjunctive mood, which is the one we use for hypotheses, like the one from your example.