I am fond of reading psychological books. One of the books I have read impacted me so much named to conciliate with your original family. It lists a lot of mental problems is from our original family. furthermore it points out that the bad behavior from parents generation will be passed down . In other words the way parents treating their child will be imitated subconsciously by their child. That’s terrible. Besides I figured it out why my husband is temperamental. Because his father always scolded and yelled at him when he was a child. So he has learned only this way from his father to deal with father-son problem. Apparently his bad experiences affect him