Cathy
Yes, so true. There is a friend who is looking good, socially confident and generous. And if I ask him that if he could donate some money for a charity, could I anticipate how much of money would he invest? The answer is that ‘I can’t anticipate it’. That being said, you often make mistake to judge of someone by the halo effect. Even though I’ve leaned it, when I get to know somebody, I try to find causality with being affected by small detail things like their regular habits, vocabularies what they use and their nonverbal communication style etc. Ironically, I wish to leave people around me who can recognize of me logically and respects me as I am. This wishes itself is ironic thought lol. Wow this book makes me think about my thought again. Must read book. [Thinking, Fast and Slow] Recommended. Please correct me 🙄
Jun 13, 2021 5:46 AM
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Yes, so true! There is a friend who is looking good, he is socially confident and generous. If I asked him to donate some money for a charity, could I guess how much money he would invest? The answer is not it all! People say you often make mistakes when someone is judged by the halo effect. Even though, I’ve leaned it. When I get to know somebody, I try to find causality by the affect of small detail like their regular habits, vocabularies what they use and their nonverbal communication style etc. Ironically, I wish I have people around, who can naturally recognize and respect me as I am. This wish itself is ironic thought lol. Wow, that book makes me think about my thoughts again. You must read this book, "Thinking, Fast and Slow" I recommend!
Jun 18, 2021 10:54 AM
Cathy
Language Skills
English, Korean
Learning Language
English