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what does unconditional love mean exactly?

when we talk about unconditional love it recalls love among parents and their children. it is real unconditional love. but when two persons who grew up in different conditions and it may lead to potential problems and matters what does unconditional love mean exactly? can they love each other in spite of all differences? and generally does unconditional love work for long time? could it lead to strengthening the bond between couples?


that is not just a simple question for me. your experiences and opinions are vital and so important for me.

thanks for sharing your idea with me.

May 18, 2019 6:37 AM
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Unconditional love is learning how to compromise.. You must know how to accept not just the strengths of your partner but also their weaknesses. This can be tough especially when you have a different personality from your partner. When you love someone without condition, you love them wholeheartedly. 😘❤️💋 This kind of love is difficult to maintain. 
May 18, 2019

Boy: Mom, I want to go party with my friends.

Mom: No no, it's night , you shouldn't go. Not safe out there.

Boy: I will be fine, mom. 

Mom: You never listen to me!! Anyways, go but... I have a "condition", don't drink , stay sober!

Boy: Okay mom. I love you!

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Boy: Baby, let's go party tonight! 

Girl: Oh ho! Sure why not! But you should not drink with your friends. Stay with me and stay sober!:D

Boy: Come on, I will only have a pint of beer, not much!

Girl: Okay, but I have a "condition". You must go cold turkey on smoking!

Boy: Okay baby! I love you!

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However, both the boys didn't stand on the conditions. Mom's boy couldn't stay sober and Girl's boy couldn't stop smoking. Both of them came to know about it. Both of them got angry. But mom persistently kept her canopy of love above her son and tried her best to help him out not to get addicted. In the other hand, the girl said, "I am done with you!"...all hell broke loose and she declared her break-up call. 

They both had condition, but the true love doesn't come with any "term&condition"!

May 18, 2019
I believe that if two people have gone through a lot together, have succored each other through difficult periods of their lives, and each of them has seen the other at their worst, and it has only strengthened the bond and understanding between them and didn't make them drift apart or fall out of love with the other, that can be unconditional love. But it takes a lot of time and a lot of experiences together to attain such a relationship.
May 18, 2019
I think, unconditional love between couples can only work in lower questions or living styles.

But, I would never be able to love a person, who handles with violence or without a basic respect towards other people. That does not mean, that every little gossiptalking is morally wrong, but there has to be a limit. 
May 18, 2019
Shima
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