yeah,maybe it's a good idea.i should give up.i couldn't hurt him.he is a very kind man.

well....i don't know what could happen.

i am vey confused now.

yeah,he loves me very much and i know this clearly.but i just don't have any feeling about him.what can i do?need i give him a chance?

Despite he is the man of your life, if you don't feel anything more than friendship about him, you would give up for both; you don't hurt him and you don't will be hurt. Besides, he doesn't hope about you.

If he is good and nice, you can give him a chance. But if the relationship is not healthy or doesn't do any good for you, there's no point in trying to be kind by corresponding to some feelings you don't have, and probably won't have. I believe that from the beginning you can know what could happen or not in a relationship <img title="Cool" src="http://www.italki.com/Scripts/tinymce/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-cool.gif" alt="Cool" border="0" />