Today I had a terrible quarrel with my dear aunt. On account of discussing whether to have a baby. In China, it is taken for granted that everyone should give birth to a child. If not, he or she will be condemned by parents and relations. Getting married and having a baby are important matters in everyone's life. In your parents' opinion,(if you haven't finish the life credo or rebuff them - I don't understand this part) then you will(will or won't) have a "wonderful day " just like me. I don't understand why having a child is essential. Parents often say: you will be isolated if you don't have children, no one will take care of you. When you are older you will be in poverty and cast off by society. So you must have a baby when you are young.