Perhaps you could say that they're 'in a casual relationship'? This means that they go out together sometimes, but haven't made any kind of commitment.
By the way, you confused us all by saying ' I'm looking for meaning of "vacile" in English' . This word has no meaning in English because it's not an English word! You should have said something like 'I'm looking for a translation of ..' or 'I want to know how to say ... in English'.