Kai, I believe we need more information to answer this question. In different contexts, each sentence could be used, especially if it is part of a conversation.
The sentences seem to be missing something.
"Maybe she just thought about what she wanted rather than what we all need to be thinking about right now, just to test us". or "Maybe she just thought of what she wanted as the goal for the group, rather than making a group decision to suit us all, just to test our patience with her".
I have tried to give a more authentic context, however it may be different to what you have in mind.