@Sara, thank you for your explanation. I hadn't seen anything in English about it being "more about virginity than age", but I had a suspicion that was what you meant. I expect the old mullahs celebrate virginity more than the women involved :D. Yes, I can see your point about the holiday confirming patriarchal attitudes about women in society.

oh.. I see now

What exactly did I say that made you think I am okay with bigamy and polygamy?:D I was simply talking about the common beliefs about virginity and the fact such a day just reproduces violence against women. the tradition that doesn't let you have the right of controlling your own body.