I think you are so lucky. because you have a man that is worth to love

Congratulations on your choice! It must be wonderful to get clarified. I'm 39 and married with a son. But I really don't know what is love between man and woman. I have read a lot of stories, watched a lot of movies about love. I know they say that love is passion, obsession, and so on. But in the real world, relationship is kind of complicated. It's easy to love someone, because life is tough and the world sometimes is not so warm, we really need the light of compassion. But it's hard to stay in love with somebody. Anyway, I don't think I'm wise enough to separate emotion from reason. I don't think I'm romantic enough to make a choice without any practical motives. But still, I'm not cynic enough to deny the idea of true love. So, I appreciate your certainty and wish you good luck!

I am glad you actually made that decision with a calm head :) More often than not, emotions tend to clog our judgement. All the best for your future. May he say the same to you. I have been with the same girl for over 8 years now. She was my first ever girl friend and we are going to get married coming January. In India, generally, most marriages are arranged (families choosing the spouse instead of the person). So a love marriage needs a lot of convincing. thankfully, we were able to convince our families. so everyone is happy now. Atleast you won't have to worry about convincing your families. It's only you who has to be convinced :D

That's so happiness!