The disability of life Loneliness seems to take away all of your dependence in this world in a special time,such as Edmond Dantes in 《The Count of Monte Cristo》 be throw into a prison cell in a desret land.Because there too many chasms between person and person,they can't open their mind to do heart communication thoroughly,which lead to people drop into continuesly loneliness、bitterness and helplessness. “People is destined to live in countless others and can't communicate with they thoroughly”,then in 《Sunday》，we can see the misunderstanding between mother and daughter,the sliently between husband and wife,live in a endless avoidence and interference。Thats the human's limit. "People's limitation decide loneliness and helplessness is Human",Shi Tie sheng regards it as disability of human in generized definition. I read a book few days before,it said about several kinds of phycological symptom,i thought those are what Shi talked about,the disability of heart. I find something that really superised me,there is a sympthom:"Someone is required absolute equal when they are get along with others".I used to behavior like this when i was 13,because i found that,not everyone would treat you back as the same way even you are really sincerely and thoughtful.I feel hurted by some stuff,then i start became strict and picky,I dont want to spend unrequited emotion on others,i want to get the same concern back,but,thats make me looked indefferent in that period. Unitil oneday,I found myself changed into a person i would never thought of before,who is gloomy and walk around just like a ghost,That was myself,use others mistakes to punished myself and pleased others people who just sit around and watching me laughing. I like a word pretty much:Even there is a scar in ur skin,dont worry,wings will still grows from ur scar.Express ur warm and generous heart to everybody,don't care about how much you can get back from others,its worthy if you feel satisfied and gently from deep inside when you are do something for others:) At last,a sentence for those who feel bitter about llife:Some dilemma is enternal、insurmountable,every dilemma means a kind of disabiliy in a life,if there without loneliness,love is meaningless.Admit the disability of our life and questioned our sufferings,humanity can grow