Honey, be careful (e.g. if she's trying to do something dangerous)
Sweetie, slow down (e.g. if she's running to fast) or
Your daughter's name, don't run so fast / don't run too fast
Generally, all of the one's you mentioned are fine except "take it easy" isn't really used. I hear the phrase "take it easy" more in the context of if someone is angry and you're trying to calm them down so you tell them "calm down, take it easy" or someone describing a situation where they're just having a relaxing day and looking to just "take it easy".
Hope that helps!