sorry for coming back lately,Chen.
I think in these two occasions,the word “tap”is used in kind of our daily lives which means maybe we can understand it in a different way.
You know,when we chat with our closest friends or family,we maybe say something more spontaneously or we will make the sentence shorter than we usaully do in formal writing,such as“thx 4 ur time”“be taken in”“an apple of love”etc.
Let's go back to the sentences here.
1. "Anyone can tag you in photos and other posts.", or "If you don't like something you're tagged in, you can remove the tag or ask the person who tagged you to remove the post.".The word “tag”here,we can translate into “标biao记ji”,means same like the words“sign,mark,label”.
2. conversation between a couple about a Facebook moment. Male: I will record in my facebook: Amy means so much to me and she is the beat thing in my life. Female: make sure you tag me.The word “tag”here,we can translate into “@”(^_^)just like the time when we chat wit our friends on sociel media,we sometime“@”our friends to make them notice it.
Still,we are discussing about this topics and learning together,my answer maybe not perfectly correct.
I do hope the answer make sense to you.,I think that's better for us to learn with a lively and creatively mind.And maybe we can become study partners if you like.