"Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." --John Lennon

"Life is <em>like</em> a box of choc'lits. You never know what you're going to get."--the character Forrest Gump, in the movie of that name, written by Winston Groom. 

"The best-laid schemes o' mice an 'men
Gang aft agley..."--Robert Burns

I think no , we can not choose our destiny.

But I am sure somethings in the life depend on ourselves.

Be kind, be honest, be loving, be true,and all of these will come back to you :)

Sure we can :)

Destiny!!!!

Why not....

destiny is a changeable thing,as everything is there, around us....

If people believe their abilities and limitations derivating of their family and their environment where they born there,then they can achieve everything they want.

Destiny is a kidding subject that born in our mind because of....

No, we can't. We can choose how we react to it, though.