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Do You See How Precious You Are? Somebody is in front of a mirror, looking at their reflection and talking to themselves: "Why am I so ugly? If I am good-looking, he/ she will love me." "Oh my gosh, I am fat. My friend said that I should not have eaten that cake last night." "Look at those pimples! I hate my face. Look at that girl. Her face is flawless and charming." "My boss said I am stupid. He doesn't like my job. Maybe he is right. I am useless." "My parents love my brother. He is talented, not like me. I am a slouch." "I am handicapped. Nobody wants me." etc. Well, are you also the one who thinks these things? Please know that your value doesn't decrease based on what people think about you, but it depends on what you think about yourselves. You have your own beauty, ability and intelligence. When you cannot be or do something, it does not mean you cannot do anything else. See those birds, they cannot swim but they can fly. Look at those fishes, they cannot fly but they swim perfectly. Likewise, you cannot work as an engineer, but you might be able to be a teacher, singer, artist, doctor, lawyer, etc! Although you are not in a good shape or good-looking as people judge you, you are really kind, friendly and very helpful to others. People will love you with these qualities as they are your own beauty. If you are handicapped and think that nobody wants you, please look around you. Look at those people who are always beside you. They need you and love you. You are a super important one for them. You can find what you can and love to do. Your smiles and happiness are only things they would like you to have, so they will support you in every way. Everyone, please remember that you are precious and gorgeous. If you want people to see how awesome you are, how about giving yourself love, kisses and hugs first? :-)
2 Thg 09 2017 05:19
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Do You See How Precious You Are?

Somebody is in front of a mirror, looking at their reflection and talking  to themselves:
"Why am I so ugly? If I am good-looking, he or she will love me."
"Oh my gosh, I am fat. My friend said that I should not have eaten that cake last night."
"Look at those pimples! I hate my face. Look at that girl. Her face is flawless and charming."
"My boss said I am stupid. He doesn't like my job. Maybe he is right. I am useless."
"My parents love my brother. He is talented, not like me. I am a slouch."
"I am handicapped. Nobody wants me."
etc.

Well, are you also the one who thinks these things?

Please know that your value doesn't decrease based on what people think about you, but it depends on what you think about yourself. You have your own beauty, ability and intelligence. When you cannot be or do something, it does not mean you cannot do anything else. See those birds, they cannot swim but they can fly. Look at those fish, they cannot fly but they swim perfectly.
Likewise, you cannot work as an engineer, but you might be able to be a teacher, singer, artist, doctor, lawyer, etc!
Although you are not in a good shape or good-looking, you are kind, friendly and helpful to others. People may love you with these qualities as they are your own beauty.
If you are handicapped and think that nobody wants you, please look around you. Look at those people who are always beside you. (They need you and love you. You are a super important one for them. You can find what you can and love to do. Your smiles and happiness are only things they would like you to have, so they will support you in every way.)

Everyone, please remember that you are precious and gorgeous. If you want people to see how awesome you are, how about giving yourself love, kisses and hugs first? :-)
2 tháng 9 năm 2017
Thank you very much for your comments. In my opinion the "support" section is not only physically support, but can be mentally support too, at least from parents and family. As you said, many times that is not true, but it does not mean there is never true, right? ;-) I would like people to be more positive about themselves and people around them. If somebody acts or thinks negatively to you, it is not your problem. It is those people's problem to show their negativity and they need to manage it and learn how to respect. Again, I am happy that you like this post and thank you very much for the correction. I will correct those words. :-)
2 tháng 9 năm 2017
I just made some corrections. Please consider removing the part about people around you will love you and support you fully. Many times that is not true. We don't want to give false hope so maybe remove that section. I think this is a very good topic. Good for you for choosing this topic.
2 tháng 9 năm 2017
I'm glad you wrote on this topic because it is important for people to know they have worth as a person, a creation of God. A person has worth regardless of physical beauty or ability, intelligence or talents. Good for you to speak up about this topic.
2 tháng 9 năm 2017
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