Is Friendship Between A Man And A Woman Possible? as the saying goes, "meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control". so, love is like a wildfire... uncontrolling, strong, and undirectional and friendship is some kind of choice. Friendship between man and woman is impossible i think. But the concept of “friendship” is interpreted in a completely different way by men and women.