You will lost
You have to spend several days in forgetting your wounds on skin and flesh.
You have to spend several months in building again a new house.
You have to spend several years in subsiding dolour being lost your close relative.
But sure you can't find again close relatives lost, can't talk to them, can't hug them, can't say that you love them very much.

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I'm sorry because I made you misunderstood. I didn't say clearly. The paragraph is only my translation from Vietnamese. I posted it only to anyone help me correct the mistakes in it.

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Yes, you are quite right.  I sympathize with your pain.