I guess so,since I have been single for twenty years haha.

At starting it's matter how you look but not important For relationship it needs understanding. 

Yes

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."--Margaret Wolfe Hungerford

Shall I wasting in despair
Die because a woman's fair?
Or make pale my cheeks with care
'Cause another's rosy are?
Be she fairer than the day,
Or the flow'ry meads in May—
If she be not so to me,
What care I how fair she be?

...

Great or good, or kind or fair,
I will ne'er the more despair:
If she love me, this believe,
I will die ere she shall grieve;
If she slight me when I woo,
I can scorn and let her go;
For if she be not for me,
What care I for whom she be?

--George Wither

There's a saying in Irish:  'Beauty doesn't make the kettle boil'.