I'm younger than you . I know you have better life experiences than me but i just wanted to answer here about your feeling:) I think there is something that is making you worried but you know that and just want to ignore that.

Kevin... for what it's worth, here's my take on what you wrote. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being frugal with oneself, especially considering the fact that you're generous with others. If one has enough to eat, and a good roof over their head, good health and a cherished soul-mate, I would suggest that you are already way ahead of the game, and blessed in many ways. Every day I count my blessings, and I realize that I am fortunate in so many ways. I have only to think about the 50% of the world's population that goes to bed hungry, and I know I am blessed. Don't fret, 95% of the things we worry about never materialize (I know you know that). Hope my comments haven't been too far off-base, and most especially, not offensive.

It's the first time that i say my feeling in this way . I am very cautious and please forgive me if say something offensive.I am a chiese girl and I graduate from campus last month.And now,I work in the city of Beijin ,far away from my hometown.I missed the family very much,and I am unhappy in the last month.I find a way to make myself happy---read book.Now I read the book《JUSTICE》.the author is Michael J.Sandel. Book is good thing,it make me happy ,maybe you could have a try .Good luck.

Hi there. Have you ever heard about Midlife Crisis? Combined with global financial crisis that affects anyone and everywhere on the ineffable scale.Therefore you are not alone in this crazy world.And it does not matter one bit whether did you get some money or not. But let's settle this once and for all. First,you need to hire a decent ghostbuster. Trust me,not any of them can nab that preposterous thing once it starts haunting. Second, you really need a soul mate,buddy. But that is quite another story and most difficult one for here's no advice that I , or anyone else, know of.;)

since some time i got this feeling，and i sometimes think it must have something with “character”o “persenality”