不用穿羽绒服---no need to put on..because it isn't cold
不要穿羽绒服---do not put on..most times it means "do not put on the down jacket, put on other clothes"; sometimes, it means "should not put on"
不得穿羽绒服---can't put on..most times, it means "you can't put on the down jacket, but you can put on other clothes". That is, putting on the down jacket is not allowed.
the difference between the 2nd one and the 3rd one is TONE.