match or love?

in a marriage , 2 ppl match with each other is more importan or love each other?is that long distant kills the love?

looking for friends can speak english i m chinese , and my english is upset me now , plz if u have time , let's have a chat

trust recently , have a bad mood , seems nothing going well, have anxious ,moody , and freak out very easily . everything is based on trust , without it , nothing can work . manything happened recently , maybe i m too much selfish , not consider the other ppl's feeling , but suppose if u have close friend , they will care about u when u r in bad time , even just once . anyway , i m disappointed on this , even i considered myself is a person not that bad . and the 1 i think who can understand me and care about me , shout on me and said something really hurt .i m confused now , where i can go next .sorry guys , i speak something here and there , maybe just want to spend some motion here , then i will not b nerves ,wish everything back to normal soon , and i m really worry now , coz ,i don't feel like i can have a friend talk about all of these .

jealous in italki , have so many ppl the can spesk more than 2 languages , me just have chinese and english , and my second language is really weak . i wanna study hard , but study this kind of thing , need peaceful heart and clear mind , wish i will b better .never get too late for study ,no matter how old u r , how busy u r . never give up

clear today went to shopping outside , becoz i wear glass today , after a long time , i descover this wold is so clear , and i m fat like a big now! too much upset

ppl from other countries

many ppl they don't like each other . maybe coz the skin color or the attiude  or the religions ,

but as my opinion , even u don't like somebody , u should not say , this country ppl all r bad ,u can't becoz 1 ppl , blame all the country or religion .u can say this 1 i don't like , but never becoz his nationalty then say all the ppl from that country is not good

how u spend ur time

recently i reall feel nothing to do , i have plants of time everyday , i feel like i m retired already , for god sakes i m only 28 , 

life is going on recently a little bit boring at home , confused about what should i do ? study a language ? learn dance? loose weight? sometime really feel my mind go mad , feels unstable , i bough some book last time , wish knowledge can change mood . but i don't know the others , my religion is islam , wish allah could lead me to the right way

big wind day these 2 days , have big wind , too much big u can't imagine ,but the weather still hot , feel wired about this wind , there might b a disaster will happen , hot day and extremely big wind like ever had before . mood is so so . thinking about go down to swim or no , my weight already make me headache now . wish everything going well