《恰似你的温柔》这首歌的歌词要表达的是什么意思？ 1）《恰似你的温柔》是什么意思？ 2）歌词里面有两句话： 我们却都没有哭泣。 让它淡淡地来， 让它好好地去。 这里的它指的是什么？

廉颇老矣 尚能饭否 是个典故， 不算是成语吗？

没有永远的友谊 只有永远的利益。这一句话太对了吧。小时候我对朋友这个概念毫无所知。当时父母和老师总是告诉我们友谊是好的东西，人必须得有朋友，得好好珍惜朋友。他们用 ”信任“，”理解”，“帮助”这些单词来表示友。 初中和高中我一直单飞，跟同学之间好不到互相理解。有时候有过几个较亲的同学，并不算是彭友，只是会经常互相帮做作业而已。读大学时我最终遇见了几个那种人家叫正真的朋友，他们可以满足父母和老师提出的那些条件吧。当时我真以为我们之间的 友情是一辈子的。我们经常一起出去玩儿，聊得挺开心，有所困难彼此谈心，总是彼此靠谱。那些日子得愉快，总觉得背后支持。从毕业那一天过了四年，我们进入了成年世界，分散到全国各地。可是我们还是保持联系，还是互相帮助，偶尔视频聊天。我跟几个朋友同一个城市住，但我们很少见面。各个都有自己的方向，与他们越来越远。咱们的友谊是不是过期了？现在我了解到了友谊是短暂的，这是我们不愿意接受的事实。实上，我们是朋友是为了利益吧。拿不到好处就没必要有友谊，因为现代的社会节奏是这样子的吧。我们都关注挣钱买房生孩，根本没空关注朋友。最近我朋友请了另一个朋友吃饭谈生意，我对生意不熟悉，所以他没叫我来。人生不易，困难难免，有时候缺乏到安全感。在这种情况下我们想找朋友，但是成年世界里的朋友并不在乎。我们得靠自己，学靠自己，学脱离朋友。

中国人知道保罗·麦卡特尼吗 我听说甲壳虫这个乐队在中国好像没火。我想问一下，中国人知道保罗·麦卡特尼吗？

German lessons I used to study German at school for like around 8 years. My mom applied me for the German group, considering that her basic knowledge of this language would be helpful if I got struggled with homework. Actually my mother never helped with my German homework haha. The teacher was quite strict. She could yell at you and give you a D every time when you failed to show her your homework because your dog ate it. But yet that lady with short blonde hair had a warm heart and, sometimes, good sence of humor. I guess she still yells a fair amount when kids get out of line, or failure to turn in an assignment on time. I bet she still starts her lessons asking about how the weather is outside, as she used to ask us. No matter if it was 3.30 p.m in a sunny day in April or 8.00 a.m in freezing morning (which is not rare case in Siberia) in January, all what we had to say were a few phrases such as "der himmel ist blau", "alles ist weis", "est ist kalt". It was hard to pass her course but I somehow almost always got an A. I used to do my homework during lunchtime in canteen and memorize the new vocabulary while the classmates in front were saying it out loud when being checked. It's been almost 10 year since the last lesson. Those German lessons are definitely a huge highlight of my educational path at school, without that lady and her lessons it wouldn't be that colorful and interesting. Those lessons were also a start of learning foreign languages for me. Although I haven't practiced my German over ten years, I still remember a bunch of words and phrases. Maybe one day I will start recovering it. I would like to, actually.

刘涛非常火吗？ 刘涛这名歌手非常火吗？她的歌曲都很伤感吗？她和他的丈夫的事情是不是影响到她的作品？

人与人之间不存在友谊 大家都看过老友记吧！这部情景喜剧大概20年前在美国火了，以后转到全世界，不仅仅在西方世界，而且在东方世界都收到欢饮。感觉这些20年内这部喜剧一直在火。你应该记得吧喜剧里面的咖啡馆叫做Central Perk。北京也有Central Perk，两年前我在北京的时候我去看看，那个咖啡馆跟喜剧里面的一模一样啊，来到那里就感觉自己置于到喜剧里面了。 我想 老友记成功秘诀是什么？过了20年多，但它仍旧有无数粉丝，仍旧收到人们观看，世上几乎所有人至少听过有这个喜剧。最近我想，老友记中反映出的友谊在我们生活中有吗？喜剧里的友谊太美了吧，太理想中的了吧，现实生活中可能遇不到的。哪里有真正的友情啊？ 说实话我们做朋友是为了自己好，是为了互相帮忙。没有互相帮忙我们就不要人了。人先关心自己。你帮你的朋友是因为到时候他会帮你，是因为你得满足责任感，而不是你真的想帮忙。如果你朋友去世了，你会哭泣，会很难受。为什么你会很难受？是因为你失去了通常陪你一起去图书馆的人而已。虽然我们不是这么想，虽然我们自己理解不到这些，但是内心深处我们是这么想的吧。我所做的事儿由自己的愿意，自己的决定做出来。你男朋友送你一束花的时候，他首先满足自己的愿望 自己的要求，他送你之后等待你的感谢。人家永远不会把你的要求愿望放在第一位，永远不会没通过自己的要求帮你忙。 人要吃饭睡觉，这些是生理的需求。朋友的支持也属于最基本生理需求，毕竟我们需要社会，社会也需要我们。这都是事实。 当我们陷入困境中 我们可以给朋友到电话哭 说出烦恼的事情。但是你也不会每次都这样，因为迟早朋友会烦死你了，不会接电话，他会找借口避免话题，因为他根本不关心你。人都有自己的困难，听别人抱怨太费劲了。 所以呢，友情是骗人的吧，它只是存在在童话里，喜剧里而已。友情是一种需求，友情是一种生意，一种债务，一种合同的条件。人家帮你忙，下次你也得出手。这不叫友谊吧。

Ciao amici! Ciao amici. Mi ciaomo El, vengo dalla Kyrgyzstan. Mi piace la Italiano cultura, mi piace artisti Botticelli, Santi e Caravaggio. Meraviglioso Rinascimento! Multo meraviglioso! Me piaco la direttorre Felini, e il suo filmi "I Vitelloni". Mi piace la Italiano musica, mi piace Al Bano e Romina Power, Toto Cutugno, Pupo, Malika Ayane, Dear Jack. Me piace la canzone "Tu soltanto tu", "E se poi", La pioga", "L'Italiano", "Su di noi". L'italiano è molto romantico e appassionato!

Why friendship doesn't exist. I took this photo last year in Beijing. It was in a cafe called Central Perk, just like the fictitious place where Chandler, Joey, Ross, Rachel, Monica and Phoebe hung out. The TVs in the shop even play episodes of Friends with Chinese subtitles. I actually know a lot of people who grew up watching Friends. Unlike them, I've watched my very first my episode 3 years ago and I fell in love with it. The show helps to escape reality and give some hope, but still we have to be realistic. Friendship is depicted on Friends is just a fairytale we can dream of because friendship as itself just doesn’t exist. You know, being the best friend who's gonna be there for you 7-24 and other fancy stuff is nothing but just our vivid imagination. I used to think I had had friends, but I realized that I'd been wrong. So-called friends are not going to be there for you each time when you need support, nobody but only close relatives and family, and the scary thing is that even this sometimes has limits. You would get some support at the beginning but sooner or latee you’ll be left alone with all your circumstance that you have to overcome. So-called friendship is just a fake, something that we believe in, something that we play, something that we pretend. We are human, self-protection is our basic need and instinct, and making friends is a form of it. We need food, we need sleep for 8 hours, and we need to hung out with someone in order to not get bored, we need to get things of the chest when we are anxious and worried. Friendship is just a human invention as well as the wheel and fire. But didn't you think that when you really upset for a long time, when you may lost a loved one and struggling to get through your hsrd time, you can't rely on your friends because their time for you is limited. Deep inside, they just don't care, and deep inside you know it. You and him can raise a shot or two in a bar together, but you can't do that all time you need because once your friend won't pick up the one, once he would be busy, once not his words but voice would telling you "I'm sick of you". We help each other because we want to, not because we really care of each other, we do care of each other but because we feel obligated but reluctant to realize it. There's nothing wrong with that, but to some extent, we are all liars and actors.