Hello everybody.
I'd like to comment one little feeling that I'm not sure whether happens only to me or is a bit more general. The fact is that I'm realising that when I write an answer to a question in "answers" the less and less I can read a "thank you" for it.
As far as I'm concerned, I always appreceate that time that unknown people spends just to help me when I put a question, so I always say "thank you very much for your time or for your help". Even thoght sometimes that help mght be useless, anyway the important point for me is the time that those people gives me freely.
Of course I'll keep on trying to help people with their Spanish, I'm not going to be offended because the "thank" custom seems to be dying away for some people, but I think it is a real pity, mainly because writing "thank you" has only took me 2 seconds.
Try to prepare your interchange, ask for the need of your partner, and fit in their needs, of course that needs time to work but take your time.<o:p></o:p>
Make clear what you need about of an interchange, that is not just “improving a language”, think what kind of skills you need to improve, what’s the aim of your study: work, business, academic, travelling?, it is not the same practicing for an certification exam, for a work interview of just for getting by when travelling. That information might be quite useful for your partner.<o:p></o:p>
Be polite, and have empathy, it is a good way to make feel your partner confortable to think about what would you like was the behave of your partner with you.<o:p></o:p>
Fit the kind of content of your interchange to your level, I mean, just with an elementary level I don’t think it is a good idea to try and do a rambling chat as you’ll constantly faced with vocabulary and expressions that you don’t know which unavoidably lead you to those hateful pauses and silent moments.<o:p></o:p>
In those cases I think it is a good idea to prepare a situation in advance and try and perform that situation after having had a look at some useful expressions and vocabulary.<o:p></o:p>
Don’t hesitate to explain what you need to your partner, even you can feel you’re giving your “rule list” and make you seem a bit stupid, do it tactfully of course, but if you don’t want your partner being constantly interrupting you in order to correct you, just say it.<o:p></o:p>
Don’t forget that the feeling of being making the fool of yourself when straggling with other language you are not fluent in is quite usually reciprocal, and the point of hanging around a place like this is that your not fluent in a language, obviously.
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Well, this is just a bit introducction so that we can have a starting point, therefore if you have experiences and advices that you think might make more profitable, amusable and confortable ther exchanges don't hesitate to give your point of view.
As I see my profile I notice that I have 720 point. Do you know what those points are for? Do they have any usefulness?
Thank you.
Dado que este año se está celebrando los 400 años de la muerte de Cervantes, por si algún curioso de la literatura española le pudiese interesar, dejo un enlace a una excelente narración del famoso libro en formato mp3.
Hay que tener en cuenta que hay a menudo vocabulario sobre instrumentos o herramientas que no son habituales en la actualidad, pero en general la narración se realiza en un español muy claro y bien pronunciado.
http://www.educaragon.org/arboles/arbol.asp?guiaeducativa=41&strseccion=a1a68
