Realize your own dream Making empty talking is harmful yourself, while doing practical jobs can change your future.must take what has been left to you by your predecessors as a departure for forging ahead into the future,good base is important for you to achieve your goal. How to realize the rejuvenation of your family, many years of hard struggle to bright prospect, is closer than ever to reaching of your goal,and is more confident and capable of reaching the goal than ever. It is the second decade of 21st, everyone will face with many unprecedent opportunity and challenges, there is still a long way to go,before your blueprint come to true, this requires a long-term efforts.it is especially difficult for you to encourage yourself and rall and led your family members in face of economic pressure, social transformation and new trouble in paceful rise, as well as new conflicts and problems in process of development. Everyone has his idea and pursuit as well as one's own dream, wholly family mebers share common distiny, only when everyone is hard-working and full of vigor to make their contribution, can you realize your family's prosperous.

Male and Female Roles In all society, male and female roles are regarded differently. Roles defined by sex also characterize the economic sphere so that the tasks men perform are different from those women perform. This difference is not any outgrowth of the biological differences between men and women, a specific task may be associated with men in one society and with women in an other. sometimes, men choose to carry out female rather than male roles, in some cases,some men dress like women and perform female tasks. On the other hand, female who carry out male roles usually dress and act like men.Because of women's association with mothering , the home and the domestic affairs, but men are associated with the public affairs. As many changes occur in female roles in contemporary modern society, men are increasigly taking on child care and domestic tasks.

,The value of education Education is not an end, but a means to an end. In other words, we don't educate children only for the purpose of educating them, our really purpose is to fit them for life and attain the ability to solve problem.As soon as we realize this fact, we will understand that it is very important to choose a system of education which will really prepare children for life and the necessary of society. In many modern countries it has for some time been fashionable to think that, by free education for all whether rich or poor, clever or stupid, one can solve all the problems of society and build a perfect nation. Aacually we have found that free education for all system is not enough , a far large number of people with university degrees than there are jobs for them to fill.Usually they don't do what they think of as 'low work', working with one's hand is thougth to be dirty and shameful. In fact, when we say that all of us must be educated to fit us for life, each of us can do whatever job is suited to his brain and ability,meanwhile we can realize all jobs are necessary to society, and that it is very bad to be shamed of one's work, or to scorn someone else's. Only such a type of education can be called valuable to society.

How do you conquer sadness Everyone wants to have a high quality life, lots of happiness with him all the time,meanwhile the sadness around our world,how can we deal with this situation, it is important for us to handle it well. Everybody has blue days,these are miserable days when you feel lousy,grumpy,lonely and utterly exhausted, days when you feel small and insignificant, when everything is just out of reach, it seems the end of the world coming, you can't rise to the occasion, just getting started seems impossible, being paraniod that everyone is out to get you,feel like you are floating in an ocean of sadness,ultimately feel like wandering through life without purpose. It could happen to everyone, don't take it so much to heart, keeping good mood, reading some book, going shopping with your close friend, having some communication with your family members,doing more excrcise, reducing pressure, working out good plan to overcome this bad situation.

choosing the right careers Choosing the right career is very important. Most of us spend a majority of our lives to do jobs.Some of us have become very successful.Partly because they are very hardworking and highly intelligent. partyly because they have a good family background,but mainly they can choose appropriate careers which match their talents and stimulate theiry interests.in addition, they can grasp good chances.

about making friends Do you think everyone needs friends? you should be sure whether you fail to make friends. how do you think of your personality? cheerfulness is the basis of friendlyness. A friendly person always try to make a stranger feel at his own home, wherever he happens to be. Put himself in the other fellow's place and make him feel welcome.

Why can't I add someone as my friend? I want to add someone as my friend to exchang language studying, but I can't realize my thought. how can I conduct this situation?

First notebook entry: Introducing myself I do like English very much.