I have heard some children complaining that they were happier at school than at home. They said, they really wanted to make more efforts to become a better student in order to get praise from teacher at school. Both their teachers and classmates encouraged them to make progress. But when they came back home, their parents assumed that they still had a lot to learn and that doing their homework was their only duty. In fact, they just wanted to share interesting things that happened at school with their parents, and then do their homework without their parents needing to ask for it. But after losing their parents' trust, they suddenly lost interest towards their studies. From the aforementioned examples, I clearly realize that becoming a self-disciplined child mainly depends on how benevolent you are toward yourself and to what extent you believe you are the best. We can simply call it self-confidence. But building self-confidence is influenced by both teachers and parents and throughout that process, parents always make mistakes.