I just wonder why (everytime) EVERY TIME [similar to 'each time'] we love someone , we always have A feeling like WE want them to be ours, like a posession feeling. LIKE A FEELING TO POSSESS THE OTHER PERSON.

Love is not about possession.

Some people want to possess the other person to control them, so they won't find someone new.

But humans are not things to possess.

Maybe we don't want to lose them, but no one can possess another person.

Every human should be free to make their own decisions and chose who they love.

There IS always (have) A sex issue.

why (we can't) CAN"T WE take care OF them without thinkING about sex.

for me , when love someone that I want make them happy. PERFECT

Take care and watch them growth like grow a tree. PERFECT AND A BEAUTIFUL WAY TO SAY IT

I can't think that way. PERFECT

share your opinion. PERFECT

I want to see several opinions. PERFECT

(Both agree and disagree or moreover.) AGREE OR DISAGREE IF YOU WANT

You can correct my grammar I AM practicing English language.

Thank YOU for YOUR answer.

I was surprised with how many Thai women don't want to have sex with their husbands/boyfriends, and in fact encourage them to go to massage parlors/bath houses to take care of that. But even given that, they still want to be in a relationship with them, and lead a "normal" family life. I can't imagine living life this way myself, but I'm now aware that this situation really does exist.

thank you for correct me. :)

My wife and I are separate people who've been together for over forty years.

We did go through a stage in our relationship when we said "we" to everything. A lot of couples do. I don't think it's healthy, though. Usually it is not truly a merged personality--it is one person subordinating themselves to the other one.