Being busy is a common difficulty for many learners to master a language and also it is often the first problem you have to overcome anyway. In this case, you must have another overwhelming motive to push you moving on the language learning at a fair cost no matter whether it is time , effort or money. 

My sadness, my suffering, my problems every thing hurts me push me to learn languages to forget everything and getting involved in learning.

I agree. There are moments when you don't want to push yourself. For me, it really motivates me when I think of my purpose in the future. And you should make your learning methods fun! Don't make it boring so you won't lose interest. :)  

Привет,я тоже так думаю Николай.Молодец.

I myself struggle with motivation too. I started a similar discussion a while ago and the consensus was that you can't move forward with language learning if you don't have this down pat. I have yet to find something that really inspires me to learn and learn well. Let me know if you find something that doesn't bore you (as recommended by Nelli) - I have yet to find something that doesn't make me want to up and quit each time I try to learn one of my target languages. I know that my life would probably richer and more fun if I learned another tongue, and I know sitting around waiting to catch a motivation by the toe isn't effective because, trust me, I'm doing it, and it doesn't work. I wish you luck.