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Vocabulary: Ethnocentri (My Culture is Better Than Yours)

ethno (Greek): race or culture
centric(Grek): centered on 
ethnocentric: attitudes about race or culture that are centered on (the superiority of) one's own culture or race.
(Pronounced: eth-noh-sen-tric)

In a recent Facebook post, someone complained that a foreign-born merchant put their change (money) on the counter instead of in their hand. I commented that, in some cultures, it is seen as impolite (rude) to touch the hand of a stranger. Their reply was, "They just need to learn how we do things!" I found her response to be unreasonable and very ethnocentric. It wasn't the first time that I've had to come to the defense of the behavior of foreign-born citizens.

One of the biggest complaints that I hear is that foreign-born merchants should speak only English in their American establishments (businesses). While I can agree that there is some merit (value) with this particular issues because I also want to feel welcomed and be able to communicate with those whom I've chosen to patronize (buy from), I disagree that it is necessary for a merchant to refrain from (stop) speaking his or her native tongue (language) with their employees when in my presence. I try not practice ethnocentrism.

I appreciate and respect when people migrate (move) to America, share in some of our cultures, but maintain and protect their own -- it is totally possible to do. My guess is that ethnocentric attitudes can be found in every country on every continent.

Have you noticed any ethnocentric attitudes in people in your country towards others?
Do you feel that learning new languages and communicating with different people groups online helps with the problem of ethnocentrism?
Have you identified and changed any ethnocentric attitudes within yourself in recent years?

17 Thg 01 2018 20:14
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We have many people from overseas in restaurants, dairies, takeaway, etc. Often the people will be talking on the phone or to a friend or family member in their native language and I wait until they see me to serve me. I find it does not bother me because it is normal.

Unfortunately there are some behaviors I have heard of that do offend me. I mean the thought that when a man marries a woman she becomes his property and he can treat her as he pleases. I remember hearing once how a man threw acid on his wife's face. On what planet is that behavior acceptable.  
17 tháng 1 năm 2018
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@Ian It is normal to me as well. When I was growing up I remember being taught that America was a "melting pot." I understood that the idea was that people came from all over the world and blended in together to make a distinct culture. Somehow, though, it never occurred to me that some people would take it so literally as to expect the culture of others to disappear altogether. I think all of these "flavors" is what makes America so special. Thanks for commenting!
17 tháng 1 năm 2018
@ Ian I definitely agree that, that is not acceptable under any conditions. I guess when it comes to these type of cultural issues (religous beliefs included) is that I can respect them all as long as they don't intrude upon the human rights and quality of life of others.
17 tháng 1 năm 2018