I think sometimes people who look like pushovers are really the strongest people on earth. Being able to maintain your composure and dignity even when you want to fight requires a significant amount of control. You can’t murder murder. :)

But, of course, one needs to keep him or herself safe. Sometimes you can’t avoid a fight, especially when protecting someone else.

Being a bully is worse. I don't think anybody should ever "blame the victim."

Both are horrible but in my opinion, it's worse to be a pushover because it shows that you lack authority

Yeah completely depends on the circumstances.

Depends on what you want I guess.

Both are terrible options. I d say they are equally as bad.