Please tell me about any table manners in your society that might be unique to your country/region.
A lot of my foreign friends are very sensitive to Japanese norms, and are extremely respectful to our culture. On italki too, I've seen people discussing Japanese norms and how to respect them. (Thank you to everybody who wants/tries to respect our crazy cultural norms!! I'm just so grateful for the thoughtfulness and consideration everybody shows us.) So, I would love to return the favor by learning more about other cultures!
For example, when my friends ask me the "table manners question" about Japan, I tell them that it's not polite to stick their chopsticks into a rice bowl. (this has a cultural connection to death) Abroad, I don't slurp my noodles in a ramen restaurant because it's not polite (even though you're actually supposed to slurp them in Japanese ramen places! haha).
So, what kind of table manners do you have in your country? What's okay at the dinner table? What's not okay?
Even if not table manners, feel free to tell me about social norms or cultural norms in your country/culture!
Just in case: The italki community is usually very good with this, but I would really appreciate it if people can share information about cultural norms; not criticize cultures. (ie: "somebody from XX country did this, because they're uneducated" ) My post has the assumption that all cultures are DIFFERENT, not defined by hierarchy or any global table-manners-manual. Please keep in mind that what might be considered "rude" in your country might actually be considered "polite" in others and vice versa. Thank you!
So, the basic question is--do translation processes change the essence of books?
My favorite books are Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy, No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai, and The Kite Runner by by Khaled Hosseini (*cough and Harry Potter *cough). I also love love love Kobo Abe's works.
Although I read the Abe, Dazai and Hosseini in their original languages (Japanese and English), unfortunately, I don't understand Russian (for Anna Karenina). I've read it a couple of times in English. Although I do realize that I wouldn't fully understand culture without the language and vice versa, I would like to believe that I'm not missing out on too much of Tolstoy's masterpiece.
I do think that it is always best to read the original if you can, but that's not always possible.
So, what's your take on it?
To everyone: Do you think that you understand or "get" the essence of a book even if you don't speak the language? Are good translations enough? (I'm aware that there are different qualities)
To the wonderful people of Russia: Have you read English translations of Anna Karenina before? Do they miss a lot of things?
To those who just can't answer generalized questions: What are your favorite translated books, and were you satisfied with them? Did they make you want to study the original language so you can read the original one day?
Hoping to get some insight and book recommendations :)
