Key takeaways

  • お名前は何ですか (onamae wa nan desu ka) is the polite way to ask someone’s name in Japanese.
  • 名前は何ですか (namae wa nan desu ka) is the standard everyday form; the (o) prefix adds a layer of politeness.
  • To give your name, say 私の名前は[Name]です (watashi no namae wa [Name] desu) or simply [Name]と申します ([Name] to moushimasu) in formal contexts.
  • In casual speech, 名前は? (namae wa?) is enough between friends.
  • Japanese people often introduce themselves surname-first; knowing this prevents confusion when exchanging names.

You have been studying Japanese, and you finally have a conversation partner. The first thing they ask is something you did not expect to have trouble with, and the words do not come out right.

Asking and giving names is one of the first real interactions in any language, and in Japanese there are several layers depending on how formal the situation is.

This guide covers the polite, standard, and casual forms for asking someone’s name, the right way to give your own name in return, how to ask someone to repeat or spell their name, and what to do when your name is difficult to pronounce in Japanese.

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How to ask “what is your name?” in Japanese

Japanese Romaji English Register
お名前は何ですかonamae wa nan desu kaWhat is your name?Polite / formal
名前は何ですかnamae wa nan desu kaWhat is your name?Standard
名前は?namae wa?What’s your name?Casual
何ていう名前?nan te iu namae?What’s your name? (what name do you go by?)Casual

The (o) in お名前 is an honorific prefix that makes the question more respectful. When speaking to someone you have just met in a business or semi-formal situation, お名前は何ですか is the right choice. Find a Japanese instructor on italki and practice asking names.

Giving your own name

Japanese Romaji English Register
私の名前は[Name]ですwatashi no namae wa [Name] desuMy name is [Name]Standard
[Name]と申します[Name] to moushimasuMy name is [Name] (humble)Formal / business
[Name]といいます[Name] to iimasuI’m called [Name]Polite, natural
[Name]です[Name] desuI’m [Name]Casual but clear
[Name]だよ / [Name]だ[Name] da yo / [Name] daI’m [Name]Very casual

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Surname-first convention

Japanese people introduce themselves surname-first. If someone says 山田太郎 (Yamada Taro), 山田 (Yamada) is the family name and 太郎 (Taro) is the given name. When speaking in Japanese, following this convention is natural and expected. Learn Japanese online and build comfort with surname-first order in real time.

Asking for clarification

Japanese Romaji English
もう一度おっしゃっていただけますかmou ichido osshatte itadakemasu kaCould you say that once more? (formal)
もう一度言っていただけますかmou ichido itte itadakemasu kaCould you say that again? (standard)
どう書くんですかdou kaku n desu kaHow do you write it?
お名刺はありますかomeishi wa arimasu kaDo you have a business card?
漢字で書いてくださいkanji de kaite kudasaiPlease write it in kanji

In Japanese business culture, exchanging business cards (名刺, meishi) is a standard part of introductions. Take the card with both hands, read it briefly, and place it carefully on the table. Use these clarification phrases with a Japanese private tutor to build confidence asking for repetition.

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Handling foreign names in Japanese

Japanese uses katakana to write foreign names. “Emma” becomes エマ (Ema) and “James” becomes ジェームズ (Jeemzu).

Japanese Romaji English
私の名前はジョンですwatashi no namae wa Jon desuMy name is John
日本語では[name]と書きますnihongo de wa [name] to kakimasuIn Japanese, it is written as [name]
[Name]と呼んでください[name] to yonde kudasaiPlease call me [Name]

Asking for someone’s name when you have forgotten it

Japanese Romaji English
お名前を失念してしまいましたonamae wo shitsunen shite shimaimashitaI have forgotten your name (formal)
すみません、もう一度お名前をsumimasen, mou ichido onamae woSorry, your name once more please
何とお呼びすればよいですかnanto oyobi sureba yoi desu kaWhat should I call you? (polite)

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The full introduction flow

Japanese Romaji English
はじめましてhajimemashiteNice to meet you
[Name]と申します[Name] to moushimasuMy name is [Name]
どうぞよろしくお願いしますdouzo yoroshiku onegai shimasuPlease treat me well / I look forward to working with you

Your first impression in Japanese hinges on getting introductions right. Learning how to say nice to meet you in Japanese ensures you start every conversation with confidence. Exchanging names in Japanese takes a few minutes of reading and quite a bit of live practice. A Japanese tutor can roleplay introductions across different settings with you until the language feels natural.Book a trial lesson today and start with a simple introduction in Japanese.

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FAQ

Do I need to add san (さん) after someone’s name when I say it back?

Yes, in most contexts. さん (san) is the standard Japanese honorific, equivalent to “Mr.,” “Ms.,” or “Mrs.” Using a name without さん when speaking to someone you have just met or to a superior would come across as overly familiar. What if my name has no natural Japanese pronunciation? Most foreign names can be written in katakana. Names with “L” sounds use “R,” “V” sounds use “B,” and some vowel combinations are simplified. Practicing the katakana version of your name before speaking with Japanese contacts helps avoid confusion. Is it impolite to ask someone’s name directly? In very formal Japanese business culture, directly asking someone’s name before exchanging business cards can feel slightly forward. In social or casual situations, asking 名前は何ですか is perfectly natural and not considered impolite.

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