People don't wanne to know who you are but just what you do. Here is my things in today. After I and my two friends played a kind of board game, we were eating Italian food. All the things are good, food is delicious, we talk nice, however, the conversation suddenly transfer to job experiences. One of my friend, he has relatively successful work experiences, and the kind of job that my other friend do, they are similar. This should be lucky because they are meeting firstly but actually the disaster is coming to me. They almost talk to each other and I am invisible for them, unfortunately this is not the worst. The worst is the successful guy asks me what do you want to do in the future? after they are like fire countering wood. The point is he knows what I want to do and he knows I don't have job now. Then, nightmare is coming. They tell me the theory about how the thing I want do is unrational like they are mentor. This moment I feel I like a trash for them. But I am not just thinking my future, I have plans to achieve it and have lessons to learn related skills. I am tring to keep moving but still have the processing. In the end, I don't mad with my friends but not happy in my heart. I don't want destory the cozy atomasphere because in the chinese traditional education opinion, this is I think too much but really? The question is my too strong self-esteem? Guys, please tell me what should I do in the next time and how should I think about this kind of questions.