Key takeaways
- 乾杯 (kanpai) is the standard Japanese toast, used at the start of almost any social drinking occasion, from formal banquets to casual izakaya gatherings
- The word 乾杯 literally means dry the cup (乾 kan: dry; 杯 pai: cup/glass), implying you drink the whole glass in one go, though in practice most people take a single sip or drink at their own pace
- Japanese drinking etiquette has distinct social rules: wait for kanpai before drinking, do not pour your own drink, and try to keep others’ glasses filled. Ignoring these signals indifference to the group
- If you do not drink alcohol, politely declining and holding a non-alcoholic drink for the toast is completely acceptable. The toast is a social moment, not a requirement to consume alcohol
At virtually every social gathering in Japan, drinking begins the same way: someone raises a glass, says 乾杯 (kanpai), glasses come together, and everyone drinks. That single word carries with it a set of social practices that structure the entire drinking occasion.
Understanding what kanpai means, when to say it, and how drinking etiquette works in Japan helps you participate fully in one of the country’s most common social rituals. italki connects learners with Japanese teachers who can explain the cultural layer behind phrases like kanpai and help you navigate Japanese social contexts naturally.
This guide covers kanpai, related toasting expressions, the social etiquette of Japanese drinking culture, how to handle not drinking alcohol, and the language around izakaya and drinking occasions.
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乾杯 (kanpai): the standard toast
| Japanese | Romaji | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 乾杯 | kanpai | Cheers / Toast |
| 乾 | kan | Dry |
| 杯 | pai | Cup / glass |
乾杯 (kanpai) literally means empty the cup or drain the glass and is used as a toast at the start of drinking. In practice, draining the glass is not required; the gesture of raising your glass and saying kanpai together marks the beginning of the meal or gathering.
Pronunciation: KAN-pai. The stress falls lightly on the first syllable. The word is often called out loudly and enthusiastically, especially in casual settings.
When to say it:
- At the beginning of a dinner or drinking party, after everyone has been poured a drink
- When one person officially starts the toast (often the most senior person at a business gathering, or whoever organized the party in social situations)
- After someone delivers a few words of opening remarks (乾杯の挨拶, kanpai no aisatsu: opening toast speech)
Do not drink before kanpai is called. Waiting shows respect for the group and the occasion.
The kanpai ritual: what to do
Step 1: Everyone at the table gets a drink poured. If you have not been given a drink yet, wait or ask. Beginning kanpai before everyone has a glass is considered impolite.
Step 2: Someone raises a glass and calls for kanpai. In formal settings (company parties, weddings), this person may say a few words first. In casual settings (izakaya with friends), someone simply raises their glass and says 乾杯!
Step 3: Everyone raises their glass and says 乾杯 together. Glasses may be clinked (especially in casual settings with friends) or simply raised without clinking (more common in formal or business settings).
Clinking etiquette: When clinking glasses, hold your glass slightly lower than the glass of someone senior to you. This signals respect. With friends of equal standing, the height difference does not matter.
Step 4: Take a sip. You do not need to drain the glass, though calling 一気 (ikki: drink it in one go!) among friends is a party chant sometimes used in casual settings.
Step 5: Drinking begins. From this point, glasses are refilled by others at the table (see etiquette section below).
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Formal versus casual drinking contexts
| Context | Setting | Language register | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| 歓迎会 (kangeikai) | Welcome party (for new employees, new team members) | Semi-formal | Usually organized; kanpai caller is the senior member |
| 忘年会 (bōnenkai) | Year-end party (December office party) | Semi-formal to festive | One of the biggest annual social events in Japan |
| 新年会 (shinnenkai) | New year party (January) | Semi-formal to festive | Similar to bōnenkai in structure |
| 結婚式の披露宴 (kekkonshiki no hiroen) | Wedding reception | Formal | Multiple toasts throughout the dinner; specific protocols |
| 飲み会 (nomikai) | General drinking party / after-work drinks | Casual | Common social event among colleagues, friends, club members |
| 居酒屋 (izakaya) | Japanese pub | Casual | The most common setting for after-work and casual drinking |
| 打ち上げ (uchi-age) | Celebration after completing a project or event | Casual to semi-formal | Toast often acknowledges the completed work |
A Japanese tutor can prepare you for the specific etiquette of these contexts before you attend one, so you know what to expect and what is expected of you.
Other toasting and drinking expressions
| Japanese | Romaji | English | Use |
|---|---|---|---|
| お疲れ様でした | otsukaresama deshita | Good work today / Thank you for your hard work | Said after work; common start to informal after-work drinks |
| お疲れ様です | otsukare-sama desu | (same, but present/ongoing acknowledgment) | Said among colleagues throughout the day |
| ご健康に | go kenkō ni | To your health | Formal toast at weddings or speeches |
| 皆さんのご発展に | mina-san no go-hatten ni | To everyone’s success | Formal toast at business events |
| 一気!一気! | ikki! ikki! | Drink it down! Bottoms up! | Casual chant among friends; NOT appropriate in formal contexts |
| お酒が弱いです | osake ga yowai desu | I am not good with alcohol | Polite way to express low alcohol tolerance |
| ほどほどに | hodohodo ni | In moderation | Said as advice or reminder to drink in moderation |
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Japanese drinking etiquette rules
These rules are observed in most social drinking settings, from casual to formal:
Do not pour your own drink. In a group setting, others will pour for you and you pour for others. Pouring your own drink signals that no one is paying attention to you, which is socially awkward. If your glass is empty, you may need to offer to refill someone else’s first, which prompts them to reciprocate.
Watch others’ glasses. When you notice someone’s glass is getting low, offer to refill it before it is empty. This is an act of social attentiveness (気遣い, kizukai).
How to offer a refill: Hold the bottle in both hands or with one hand and support the wrist or elbow with the other. This is the formal and respectful way to pour.
How to receive a pour: Lift your glass slightly from the table with both hands to show you are accepting. Do not leave it on the table while someone pours.
Wait for kanpai before drinking. Drinking before the toast signals impatience with the group.
Do not leave long gaps in conversation. The drinking gathering (飲み会, nomikai) is as much about bonding as it is about drinking. Staying engaged in conversation matters.
After the meal: It is common to move on to a second location called 二次会 (nijikai: second party) and sometimes a third (三次会, sanjikai). You are not obligated to attend all rounds.
Not drinking alcohol: what to say and do
You can participate fully in a Japanese drinking occasion without consuming alcohol. The toast is a social ritual, not an alcohol requirement.
| Situation | What to say | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| You don’t drink | お酒は飲まないので、ソフトドリンクでいいですか? (osake wa nomanai no de, sofuto dorinku de ii desu ka: I don’t drink, is a soft drink OK?) | Ask when ordering or before the kanpai |
| You are driving | 今日は車なので (kyō wa kuruma na no de: I am driving today) | Universally understood reason; no pressure to explain further |
| You have a health reason | 体の都合で (karada no tsugou de: due to health reasons) | Vague but respected; no follow-up questions are usually asked |
| Low tolerance | お酒が弱くて (osake ga yowakute: I have low alcohol tolerance) | Acceptable; no pressure to drink more than you want |
| Non-alcoholic substitute | ノンアルコールでお願いします (non-arukōru de onegai shimasu: non-alcoholic please) | Many Japanese establishments offer excellent non-alcoholic options |
During the kanpai itself: hold your soft drink or non-alcoholic beer and raise it with everyone. The gesture of participation is what matters, not the contents of the glass.
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Izakaya vocabulary
The 居酒屋 (izakaya) is the most common venue for drinking occasions in Japan. Knowing the vocabulary makes the experience smoother.
| Japanese | Romaji | English |
|---|---|---|
| 居酒屋 | izakaya | Japanese pub-style restaurant |
| 飲み放題 | nomihodai | All-you-can-drink (set price for a time period) |
| 食べ放題 | tabehodai | All-you-can-eat |
| お通し | otoshi | Mandatory small appetizer dish (cover charge in food form) |
| 一人一品 | hitori ichi-hin | One item minimum per person |
| 締め | shime | Final dish at the end of a meal (often ramen or rice) |
| お会計 | okaikei | The bill / check |
| 割り勘 | warikan | Splitting the bill equally |
| 幹事 | kanji | Party organizer; person who manages the booking and bill |
| 貸し切り | kashikiri | Private reservation of the whole venue |
Common drinks and how to order them
| Japanese | Romaji | English |
|---|---|---|
| 生ビール | nama biiru | Draft beer |
| 日本酒 | nihonshu | Sake (Japanese rice wine) |
| 焼酎 | shōchū | Shochu (Japanese distilled spirit) |
| ハイボール | haibōru | Highball (whisky with soda water) |
| チューハイ | chūhai | Chuhai (shochu with fruit soda; various flavors) |
| ワイン | wain | Wine |
| ウーロン茶 | ūron cha | Oolong tea (common non-alcoholic option) |
| ジャスミン茶 | jasumin cha | Jasmine tea |
| コーラ | kōra | Cola |
| お水 | omizu | Water |
Ordering: すみません、生ビールを二つお願いします (sumimasen, nama biiru wo futatsu onegai shimasu: Excuse me, two draft beers please).
Japanese food culture gives more context for eating and social dining, where toasts like 乾杯 often appear.
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After the toast: end-of-evening phrases
| Japanese | Romaji | English | Use |
|---|---|---|---|
| お疲れ様でした | otsukaresama deshita | Good work / Thanks for tonight | Said at the end of an evening among colleagues |
| また飲みに行きましょう | mata nomi ni ikimashou | Let’s go drinking again sometime | Friendly closing phrase |
| 楽しかったです | tanoshikatta desu | That was fun | Expressing you enjoyed the evening |
| お先に失礼します | osaki ni shitsurei shimasu | Excuse me for leaving first | When leaving before others |
| 気をつけて帰ってね | ki wo tsukete kaette ne | Take care on your way home (casual) | Said among friends |
| お気をつけてお帰りください | o-ki wo tsukete o-kaeri kudasai | Please take care on your way home (formal) | Said to guests or at formal events |
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Social language in Japanese is deeply tied to cultural context, and no vocabulary list fully prepares you for the real rhythm of a kanpai, a nomikai, or an izakaya evening. What you need is practice that simulates the social conversation: how to make small talk, how to accept or decline a drink gracefully, and how to navigate the second and third rounds. italki has 30,000+ expert tutors trusted by over 10 million learners worldwide, including Japanese tutors who can walk you through these social scenarios and help you develop the confidence to participate naturally. Book a trial lesson and get ready for your next Japanese social occasion.
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FAQ
Is it rude to refuse alcohol at a Japanese work party?
It used to be more socially pressured to drink at work gatherings in Japan, but attitudes have changed significantly, particularly in the last decade. Today, politely declining alcohol is broadly accepted, especially if you offer a reason (driving, health, preference). Having a non-alcoholic drink in hand for the kanpai and participating in the social conversation is what matters. Most colleagues and managers will not push you to drink if you have declined. If someone does pressure you, a calm but clear repeat of your reason is sufficient.
What does 一気 (ikki) mean and when should you say it?
一気 (ikki) means in one breath or all at once and is used as a chant at parties to encourage someone to finish their drink quickly. It is a party game element rather than a serious expectation. 一気 is casual, festive, and associated with youthful party culture and drinking games. It is completely inappropriate in business settings, formal dinners, or weddings, and is even considered excessive at many adult social gatherings. If you hear it chanted at a party, you can choose to join in the chant without being the one drinking.
What is the difference between 乾杯 (kanpai) and 乾杯の音頭 (kanpai no ondo)?
乾杯 is the toast word itself. 乾杯の音頭 (kanpai no ondo) refers to the act of leading the toast: the person who stands up, says a few words, and then calls the group to kanpai. At formal events, this role is given to a senior or honored person and is a small honor. 音頭を取る (ondo wo toru) means to lead the toast or take charge of the kanpai moment.
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